Regardless of who you date, who they date, the one single focus should be on the well being of the children. It sickens me to see men or women get with someone in a relationship and get on some brand new ish. The only one it hurts is the children. Three months down the road when that relationship is in flames, your left to wonder why your children are distant and not responsive to you...but then again, it must be because the other parent turned them against you. I'm so tired of seeing parents not paying child support, not spending time with their children, and saying they love their kids. Quit frontin'! You love yourself more!
Being a SINGLE parent of three beautiful children, I know from experience, it's a full time job. I was recently told by my ex, that we have nothing to discuss. Hold up, where do they do that at? The last time I checked, we have three children together; therefore, when it comes to them there will always be something to discuss.
The bottom line is that if parents weren't selfish and practiced selflessness we'd have a lot less messed up kids in the streets. It all begins and ends with responsibility. If you are man or woman enough to lie down and have a child, then man or woman up and take care of them fully! On a side note, I truly hope every boy, man, husband, father, son, etc. watches the movie Courageous. I believe it to be a good gauge of whether or not you meet the mark of what you've been called to do!
Love what you do, and do what you love...until the next rant!
